A~Z of the thing called 'Love'

I was suppose to post something in conjunction with Valentines Day, but apparently I wasn't too free to do so. So here I am to make up for it, though it might be late but oh well.

I was browsing through the blogosphere where I happen to find this interesting article. Valentines day is also the day where we share stuff. So im sharing this with those lovey-dovey couples out there. Hope that this would help improve your relationship.

A - Accept
No one is perfect. There is no such thing as perfect match, like a Lego. So if you love the person, you have to accept everything, including his/her flaws.

B - Belief
If you are with a person, belief him/her. If you are suspicious and constantly not trusting that person, the only ending is separation.

C - Care
The level of care you show to that person means the importance of that person in your life. Once in a while, call him/her and ask, “How’s work? Is everything fine?” or message him/her, “The weather has turned cold, so please remember to wear an extra clothes.” This kind of care might be pointless, but at least it makes that person feel loved and wanted.

D - Digest
We are not saint, so we have our emotional ups and downs. If the person is not in a good mood, try to digest it just a bit to avoid argument?

E - Enjoy
Enjoy the company, enjoy everything that person is doing for you. If you enjoy it, your life will be joyful. But if you try to pick a bone in an egg, criticize everything that person is doing, how can you find happiness and joy in life?

F - Freedom
Even if you are married, give your partner freedom, room and privacy. Your partner is not a slave, so don’t cage him/her up and make them prisoners.

G - Give
Give also means love without condition. Giving out your love, you cannot expect to take back the same amount of love. But if you don’t give your love, then you will not get anything back at all. True love is love without conditions.

H - Heart
Use your heart to treat a person. Use your heart to love a person. Without using your heart, where is the source of true love?

I - Independence
Some people say, “I live for you.” Truth is, everyone has a meaning in his life, so don’t be too dependent on a person. If you depend on him/her too much, you are only adding extra burden on his/her shoulders.

J - Jealousy
A suitable amount of jealousy can means you care. But if you are jealous without logical reasons, then you are only unreasonable, and that is really annoying.(Reminds me of a certain someone).

K - Kiss
A kiss means more than a thousand words. Kiss him/her when you go to work. Kiss him/her when you come back from work. A kiss can mean you love and care for him/her. So start kissing your love one today.

L - Love
Love is different than like. If you love a person, you are willing to do anything for him/her. You will take a bullet for him/her and sacrifice your life. If you love a person, try to say “I love you” once in a while because that simple 3 words means more than just some gifts.

M - Mature
Childish is annoying. For adults, we should remain mature when we love, treat matters and that person with maturity will lead you a long way.

N - Natural
A lot of times a person will try to hide his/her flaws and pretend to be someone else. Unfortunately, as time goes, all the flaws will be revealed and your partner will be shock to find you as someone he/she doesn’t know. So be natural, be who you are.

O - Observe
Observe your love ones to understand his/her likes, dislikes, habits, so you can understand your partner more and try to accommodate him/her. For example: If you see her linger at a watch poster for a long time, admiring the beauty of the watch, why not buy that watch for her as a gift?

P - Protect
A boyfriend should protect his girlfriend’s safety and well-beings. A girlfriend can protect his dignity, not allowing others to insult the boyfriend.

Q - Quarter
Be generous and forgiving. If your love ones make a mistake, forgive him/her if you truly love him/her. That is the least you can do. (Of course, if he/she is having an affair, that’s betrayal, and that cannot be called a mistake)

R - Receive
When your love one is doing something for you, receive it gratefully. When the other person is giving, that means he/she loves you so much so please receive with great gratitude to show that you appreciate him/her.

S - Share
Share everything you have with him/her. Share your happiness, share your sorrow, share your wealth, share your adversity. This is the most simple task in a relationship.

T - Tender
Be tender and gentle to your love ones. No one loves a person who is rough and not tender.

U - Understand
Try to be understanding. When you are having a conversation with your love ones, try to understand his/her situations, how he/she feels. If not, you are just being selfish.

V - Veracity
Veracity, also mean honesty. Be honest in a relationship. Who will want to spend the rest of his/her life with a liar?

W - Wait
When two person is together, they grow together. One might grow faster, but please wait for your company, wait for him/her to grow at the same level as you. Don’t abandon him/her while you continue to venture out further and further.

X - `X`
The “X” means multiply in mathematical sense. Use your love to that person and multiply it everyday, so you will love him/her more and more everyday.

Y - Yearn
When you are at work or away, try to miss him/her. If you send him/her a message saying “I miss you,” the receiver will feel warm and sweet.

Z - Zest
Don’t be cold. A suitable amount of zest can make a big difference. Who would want to spend the rest of his/her life with someone who is cold and unromantic?

It sucks to be single on Valentines day. So to you lucky buggers out there, treasure those happy moments.